- Published on Friday, 10 February 2012 10:42
- Written by en.rafed.net
Adopted from the Book : Youth and Morals
The lives of religious leaders are lessons of honor, nobility, forgiveness and humanness. Their spiritual merits were manifested in practical lessons in a most magnificent picture.
One day lmam Ali ibn al-Husain as-Sajjad (A.S.) was sitting in the company of his followers when a man, who was related to him, approached and began insulting the lmam (A.S.). This man's name was at Hassan ibn al-Muthanna. Imam Ali (A.S.) ignored the man and when he had left said to his companions:
"You heard what that man said to me, I would like you to come with me to hear my reply to him."
The companions of Imam Ali (A.S.) then said:
"We will come with you, although we wanted you or us to say something (an equal response) to him."
The Imam (A.S.) proceeded to the man's home reciting:
"And those who when they commit an indecency or do injustice to their souls remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their faults: and who forgives the faults but Allah, and (who) do not knowingly persist in what the have done.''
His companions hearing this concluded that the Imam (A.S.) would say only kind words to the man. The Imam (A.S.) reached al-Hassan ibn aI Muthanna's house and said:
"Tell him this is Ali ibn al-Husain." The man heard this and came out prepared for an encounter. He was sure that Imam Sajjad (A.S.) came only to revenge his actions. When al-Hassan al-Muthanna appeared, Imam Sajjad (A.S.) said:
"My Brother, you have come to me and have said somethings. If you have said that which truly lies in me, I seek forgiveness from Allah; and if you have accused me of that which I am innocent, I ask Allah to forgive you!!"
When the man heard the words of the Imam (A.S.) he kissed his forehead and said:
Indeed I accused you of that which you are innocent of. These words describe me."
Irshad al-Mufid p. 257
The words of lmam Sajjad (A.S.) affected the spirit of this man, they relieved him of his pain arid made apparent to him the gestures of sorrow and repentance.
The Imam taught the lessons of forgiveness and overlooking the mistakes of others to his companions. He also demonstrated the happy repentance which the man experienced as a result of forgiveness.
Imam Ali (A.S.) said:
"The lack of forgiveness is the ugliest of all flaws, and haste in seeking revenge is the greatest sin.
Ghurar al-Hikam p. 768
The Holy Quran has always advised Muslims to be forgiving:
"And let not those of you who possess grace and abundance swear against giving to the near of kin and the poor and those who have fled in Allah's way, and they should pardon and turn away. Do you not love that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful."
"Allah, the Almighty, also said: "And not alike are the good and the evil. Repel (evil) with what is best, when lo! he between whom and you was enmity would be as if he were a warm friend".
When one has the power of revenge, forgiveness is a very valuable trait. Imam Sadiq (A.S.) placed it among the merits of prophets and the pious.
Safinah al-Bihar v.2, p. 702
Imam Ali (A.S.) considered forgiveness to be among the best preventive weapons against the conspiracies of evil doers:
"Reprimand your brother by performing good deeds towards him: and divert his evilness by granting him favors."
Nahj al-Balaghah p. 115
Imam Ali (AS.) uncovered sensitive facts regarding hatred in a short yet eloquent statement. He implied that spiteful individuals are inflicted with a type of remorselessness and a lack of the sense of mercy:
"The heart which suffers most from the thirst of revenge is the heart of the spiteful."
Ghurar al-Hikam p. 178
It is psychologist's view that:
"A spiteful individual is easily angered and is a merciless foe."
Imam Ali (A.S.) said,
"Spite incites anger."
Ghurar al-Hikam p. 21
A psychologist also said:
"If you do not fulfill the request of the spiteful, even if it is unreasonable, he will become frustrated and never will he relax until he has sought revenge from him who did not abide by his will."
Man only obtains spiritual, conscience, and mental harmony when he erases the picture of hate from his heart.
Imam Ali (A.S.) said:
"He who eradicates hatred, his heart and reason will be at ease."
Ghurar, al-Hikam p. 666
According to another psychologist:
"The more man distances himself from extravagant and overwhelming anger and hatred, the more he protects himself against nervous disorders which cause spiritual imbalance."
Selection Journal: Psychosocial Section
A lucky person is the one who purifies himself from enmity and revengefulness.
Imam Ali (A.S.) said:
"A man's happiness comes when his heart is free of spite and envy.
Ghurar al-Hikam p. 399
We conclude on an important point; that is, in some instances Islam prohibits the overlooking of some actions. It is true that Islam made its goal to obtain security and order, but it also considered punishment essential when the action was an encroachment on the affairs of the society or its security. Articles of the penal code are the rights of the people that can either be practiced or abandoned by the people themselves. These codes are Allah's rights on people.