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3. Etiquettes and Deeds of the Holy Month of Ramadhan

It has been narrated from the Commander of the Faithful Imam (AS.)1 that :
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1- The Commander of the Faithful Ali ibn Abu Talib (A.S.): was the first perfect exemplar of the teachings of the Most Noble Messenger (S.A.W.). 'Ali was raised by him from early childhood and followed him like a shadow until the very end of the latter's life. He was like a moth before the prophetic flame; the final moment when he was separated from the Most Noble Messenger (SAW.) was when he embraced his corpse and laid it to rest. `Ali(A.S.) was the first person after the Most Noble Messenger (S.A.W.) to approach spiritual realities in the manner of philosophical reflection, that is, by free exercise of reason. He used many technical terms and laid out and organized the rules of Arabic grammar in order to protect the Holy Qur'an from copyist's errors. The exact scholarship, spiritual culture, and consideration of ethical, social, political, and even mathematical problems shown in 'AIN (AS.) discourses, letters, and other documents that have reached us are astonishing.

The wealth of these documents makes 'Ali (AS.) the best known individual among Muslims to have a full realization of the sublime goals of the Holy Qur'an and the critical and practical concepts of Islam as they should be realized. They testify to the soundness of the prophetic saying: I am the city of knowledge, and 'Ali is its gate. Furthermore, he combined this knowledge with action. In short, `All's outstanding character is beyond description, and his virtues are innumerable. Never in history has someone's character drawn the attention of the world's scholars and thinkers to such an extent [Tr].

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Don't say Ramadhan because, you don't know what Ramadhan is? Whoever says so must pay charity and must offer an atonement fast, instead of saying Ramadhan, say the way Allah has called it — the Month of Ramadan.

The most important duty of a devoted wayfarer in this great month is to — understand the right of this Holy Month in which Allah (the glorious, the exalted), has invited the wayfarers of His path for a feast. Also he must understand the correct meanings of fasting and its relevance with Allah's invitation. Having discovered this reality he must endeavor that all his actions and deeds are accompanied with required devotion and sincerity in order to earn the pleasure of his host — Allah (the glorious, the exalted).

3.1. Effects of Fasting and Hunger

Tolerance of hunger, the most obvious part of fasting, earns plenty of advantages for a devoted wayfarer journeying towards Allah's path from the point of view of enlightenment and knowledge of Allah (the glorious, the exalted), as well as his advancement in attaining spiritual perfections. This has been emphasized in plenty of narrations, and therefore it would be appropriate to quote first an example and later on to discuss about its wisdom. The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.) has narrated:

Engage yourself in self-struggle (Jehad-e-Nafs) through the means of hunger and thirst, whose reward is equivalent to the reward of those who participated in the armed struggle for Allah's sake. There is nothing more superior before Allah's sight than tolerating
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hunger and thirst during fasting. Also said:

The one who tolerates more hunger as well as ponder deeply about Allah as compared to others, will be assigned higher exalted positions before their Lord on the Day-of-Judgment.

Also, he said to Asma:

Oh Asma! If you may act in a manner that when the angel of death approaches you, he should find you hungry and thirsty. If you do it you will attain the most exalted spiritual position, will join the ranks of prophets, will make the angels happy, and will earn the divine salutations for yourself

And said:

Keep your stomachs hungry and thirsty, and make your bodies used to hardships, perhaps your hearts will then have a chance of seeing Allah's glory.

Also, in the narration of Prophet's heavenly journey (Meraj) the following have been narrated:

Oh Ahmad! Do you comprehend the outcome of fasting? `No.' Replied the Holy Prophet (S.A.W.).`The out come of fasting is less-eating and less-talking.' Replied Allah, then explained the outcome of silence and less-speaking as follows:

The result of silence is wisdom; the result of wisdom is enlightenment; the result of enlightenment is certainty; and when a person attains the exalted spiritual position of certainty, then he does not care how does he start his day, whether with ease or hardship, and tragedy or comfort. Such is the state of those who have attained
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the position of content, and whoever attains this position acquires three unseparatable characteristics: thanks (shukr) not contaminated with ignorance, invocation (dhikr)1 not mixed with forgetfulness, and love not mixed with the love of others.'

' Whoever loves Me in this manner do not intermingle the love of others with My friendship; I too love him and make others to love him; would make his heart's eyes opened, so that he could witness My Splendor and majesty; would not deprive him from the knowledge and enlightenment bestowed by Me upon others; in the midst of night's darkness as well as during the brightness of the day would whisper and communicate with him, so that he becomes disgusted with other's company; would have him listen to My speech as well as the speech of My angels; My secrets which I keep hidden from others would become manifested upon him.

' Would saturate his wisdom with My enlightenment (marefat) and would sit Myself in place of his wisdom; would make the pang of death and its hardships easier for him so that he would enter inside the Paradise with ease and comfort. When the angel of death would descend upon him would speak to him: Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! Allah is anxiously awaiting for you.'

The narration continues:

At this point Allah would speak to him: 'this is My Paradise, make yourself at home, and this is My neighborhood in which you would be dwelling forever.' Then the soul would say: 'oh my Lord! You have introduced Yourself to me and after identifying You I became detached with your entire creation. By Your Splendor and majesty I swear that in order to earn Your's pleasure if I have to be slaughtered seventy times with extreme suffering and torture, even
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1– dhikr: inducing or maintaining a state of Allah's awareness, especially by means of vocal or silent recitation of his Supreme Names. For details see Ayatollah Ibrahim Aminis Book : Self Building, pp. 277-284 [Tr].
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then Your's consent would have been the most dearest and desirable thing for me.' At this point Allah would speak to him: 'I swear with My Splendor and majesty that from now on there will never be any veil between Me and you, that you may see Me whenever you desire so; that is the way I treat my friends.'

The above-mentioned narration clearly explains the merit and wisdom of hunger, and on this basis the learned scholars of moral ethics have described numerous advantages for hunger, some of them will be mentioned here as follows:

1. One of the effect of less-eating is purity of heart and insight, because, over-eating and fullness create a state similar to drunkenness within a human being which slows down his sense of perception, reducing his power of quick grasping, thus, ultimately resulting in his heart's blindness. Opposite to that hunger results in mind's becoming sharp, bestows comprehension upon conscience, thus, making heart readied for enlightenment. In this regard the following tradition has been narrated from the Holy Prophet (S.A.W.):

Whoever keeps his stomach hungry his thinking culminates to the highest level, thus, making his reflections stronger.

2. The other effects of less-eating are humility, hospitality, self-breaking, earthliness, and freedom from arrogance, egotism, and haughtiness, because these are the byproducts of transgression, rebellion, and ill-servitude towards Allah (the glorious, the exalted). The one who frees himself from these calamities through hunger will also make himself readied for humility, obedience, and surrender before the Lord.

3. The other effects of less-eating are lowering of intensity of sensual passions and other such motivations which invite a human being towards sinning and other deviations. As we know in most of the cases sins and transgressions are committed as a result of passionate talks and other sensual motivations, therefore, controlling these passions through hunger might freed us from getting entrapped into many dangerous situations.
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4. Another effect of less-eating is less-sleeping, we know that over-sleeping is one of the most important factor of wasting of our age which is the precious sum at our disposal for our hereafter's affairs. But hunger reduces sleep, thus, providing opportunities for night vigil — the source of all blessings and bounties — and helps a human being for worshiping and supplications which is the ladder for his attaining the most desirable spiritual station (Maqam-e-Mahmud).

5. Another effect of less-eating is the ease of worshiping rather servitude, because, the one who is used to less-eating will save a lot of time which otherwise must have been spent for making arrangements, purchasing, cooking, consuming, and relieving, as well as time spent for medical treatment , since in many cases the sickness is the cause of over-eating. Therefore, he will utilize all this available time in worship and servitude; in addition to that he will free himself from the hardships of arranging good foods and medical treatments, which means that he will be having more free time as well as more ease and comfort.

6. Another effect of less-eating is the financial ability, of a person to spend for charity, benevolence, pilgrimage, and other worships which require expenses, because, a lot of expenses spent only for providing unnecessary food items or for medical treatment as a result of over-eating, could be utilized for the above-mentioned worships. The advantages described are so vast in scope that the faculty of reason is helpless to describe their profundities. Especially, the prime advantages are purity of heart, sharpness of mind and thinking, because, thinking is tantamount to ultimate result while our other actions and deeds are tantamount to preliminaries. Even thinking or meditating in itself is spiritual journey while the other actions and deeds constitute the preliminaries and background of this spiritual journey. It is in this background that the narration says:

Meditating for even a single second is better than worshiping for seventy years.

With the above-mentioned introduction we may see the numerous
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advantages and important points including:

1. One can discover with certainty that why ABA (the glorious, the exalted), treats his guests with hunger. Does not hunger is the nearest means of attaining his knowledge, nearness, and countenance? Do not Allah's knowledge, nearness and countenance are the most dearest and esteemed things?

2. It also becomes clearly explicit that fasting is not a divive obligation, rather is a invitation for attaining divine ceremonies, whose requirement is a divine grace bestowed upon us for which we must be thankful to Allah. Awareness of this point makes it clear that the divine proclamation in the following verse:

Oh ye believe! Fasting is prescribed for you, even as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may ward off (evil). — the Holy Qur'an (2:183).

Is a proclamation, extremely honorable, esteemed, distinguished, and sweet, because, it is an invitation to sit upon the table full of His generosity and to attain the sacred spiritual station of His union (wasal) and countenance(laq'a).

3. Realization of the fact that the wisdom behind the indispensableness of fasting that is less-eating, is to weaken the sinful sensual passions; therefore, we should not be indulged in over-eating and consuming more food than the daily requirements after fast-breaking (iftar), thus, in this manner making the fasting and hunger of the whole day as useless.

4. Awareness about the merits and advantages of fasting would reveal that in order to observe it properly with devotion, we must make our best efforts so that we are not deprieved from utilizing its vast benefits.

5. Pondering about the indispensableness of fasting would reveal things, which enhance the value and worth of fasting, things, which decrease its worth, and things, which contradict and oppose fasting. It is
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from these considerations that the meanings of the following tradition can be appreciated, which says:

Fasting is not only renunciation of food and drink, while observing fasting your flesh, eyes, tongue, and in accordance with certain traditions even skin and hairs must observe fasting and must remain pious and ascetic.

6. The above explanation would also reveal that our aim and objective for fasting should not be either for the sake of freedom from Hell's punishment or for receiving the bounties of Paradise, even though both of these objectives are achieved through fasting. Rather our aim and intention from fasting should be that this deed would make us closer to Allah (the glorious, the exalted), thus, helping us attaining union with Him. It would lead a human being farther apart from bodily sensual desires and would make him closer to angelic and spiritual virtues.

Pondering about the above-mentioned explanation would reveal that, since Allah (the glorious, the exalted), has invited us for His benevolence, any sort of talk, action, and behavior which would make us farther away from divine presence, would be indicative of negligence on our part, and would not be complimentry to that. Therefore, from these considerations we should not like and approve it, because, sitting in this state upon the table of blessing of the One — who has invited us and is knowledgeable about all our thinking, thoughts, and plans — while He is caring about us and we are naive towards Him, He is remembering us while we are negligent towards Him, and He is looking towards us while we are turning our faces away from Him, of course, would be impolite and rude, and no wise person would tolerate such behavior from any of his friends.

But Allah (the glorious, the exalted), because of His special grace and favors towards His bondsman, has not considered these indecent behaviors and unexcusable negligences as forbidden (haram) and considering this negligence factor, has assigned obligations for his bondmans which are far lesser in magnitude than their capacities. For the sake of their ease, have allowed them to observe only parts of obligations as much as they may, and has overlooked the portions not performed by them.
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However, on the other hand His great devoted servants don't allow themselves to behave in this manner with their Lord, rather in every deed whether compulsory or forbidden, act in a manner which suits with their servitude and bondage as well as is decent enough for the divinity and splendor of their Lord, and those who show negligence in this path, and do not care about the rights of their bondage and the divinity of their creator are regarded by them as damned and destitutes.
Regarding fasting, what conditions Imam al-Sadiq (A.S.)1 considers essential for the authenticity of fasting, some of them would be described here as follows:
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1—Imam al-Sadiq (A.S.) (83/699-148/765): the son of the fifth Imam, he lived in an increasingly favorable climate and was able to teach openly in Medina. Large numbers of scholars gathered around him to learn, including such famous Sunni figures as Imam Abu Hanifah, the founder of the one of the four Sunni schools of law. Towards the end of Imam Jafar's life severe restrictions were placed upon his activities, as a result of growing Shi'ite unrest. More traditions are recorded from him than from all the other Imams together. He is so important for Twelve-Imam Shi'ite law that it is named the Ja'fari-School after him. He is buried in the Baqi Cemetery in Medina. Ja'far's fame for religious learning was great, greater than that of his father or of any other Twelver Imam except for `Ali bin abu Talib (AS.) himself, perhaps the earliest historical reference presenting Jafar as one of the most respected and highly esteemed personalities of his epoch, and as having profound knowledge and learning, is Ya'qubi's statement that it was customary for scholars who related anything from him to say: the learned one informed us .
Even the famous jurist of Medina, the Imam Malik bin Anas, is reported to have said, when quoting Ja'far's traditions: the Thiqa (truthful) Ja'far bin Muhammad himself told me that.... Similar compliments for Ja'far are attributed to the Imam Abu Hanifah, who is also reported to have been his pupil. Al-Sadiq's (A.S.) knowledge was great in religion and culture, he was fully informed in Philosophy, he attained great piety in the world, and he abstained entirely from lusts. He lived in Medina long enough to greatly profit the sect that followed him, and to give his friends the advantage of the hidden sciences [Tr].

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The fast-observer should consider himself as Hereafter's traveler, should remain in the state of humility, fear, self-degradation, and like a servant fearing his master should remain afraid of Allah; his heart should remain pure from defects and contaminations, and his inner self should be free from every thing except Allah; must sacrifice his entire friendship and intentions for Him and must purify his heart from all other friendships except Allah's; must surrender his eyes and soul to Him; must commit his soul for His remembrance; must utilize his body in Allah's path and must keep it distant apart especially the tongue from all sorts of sins and indecencies. Whoever has observed these limitations had indeed discharged his obligations of fasting properly, and whoever has shown negligence to discharge these obligations has wasted his fast and would not be benefited from from its reward.

We must think about musts which Imam al-Sadiq (A.S.) in this narration has considered essential for a fast-observer, so that we may appreciate the advantages and blessings incorporated therein. For example, a fast abserver who consider himself as Hereafter's traveler — a traveler who is nearing his final destination — obviously will not be interested in worldly allurements, and will not pay attention towards any thing except collection of provisions for his eaternal journey. Or for example, a fast-observer who is in a state of humility and heart-brokenness would not be interested in anything, except attaching himself to Allah (the glorious, the exalted), and would be pleased with His remembrance.

And the fast-observer who has surrendered his body and soul absolutely to Allah (the glorious, the exalted), wouldn't care for any thing except Him, inevitably his soul and body, self and conscience, and his entire existence would be filled with Allah's remembrance, love, worship, and servitude. And the fasting of some one like him is the fasting of favorites. (I swear Allah in the name of His favorite and friends that may He bless us with the grace of undertaking such a fast at least once in life time).
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3.2. Types of Fasting

There are three types of fastings:
1.The fasting of commons, which is the renunciation of eating and drinking, and observance of other fasting requirements as described in the Books of Jurisprudence.
2.The fasting of nobles, which in addition to the above also includes renunciation of sins i.e. controlling eyes, ears, tongue, and other bodily parts from sinning and transgression.
3.The fasting of most distinguished nobles which in addition to the renunciation of the above also includes relinquishment of every thing, be permissible or forbidden, which makes mind and conscience negligent from Allah's remembrance.

Of course, it must be understood that even the fasting of noble and the fasting.of most distinguished notables in itself contains infinite degrees and ranks, i.e. like the believers containing various degrees and ranks in accordance with their piety and asceticism, inevitably their fasting too will differ on the basis of the magnitude of their piety and asceticism. Considering that each believer possesses a particular degree of faith and piety, it could be said that faith, piety, and fasting have as much as ranks and degrees as there are the number of believers.

3.3. Classification of Fast-observers On the Basis of Their Aims and Intentions

As described earlier that the fasting can be classified into three categories in accordance with renunciation of things; on the basis of aims and intentions, fasting may be classified into five categories as follows:
1. A group of people observe fasting without having particular aim and intention — aim and intention which could be the basis of correctness of their deeds and accordingly could prevent their deeds from becoming nullified. For example, some might observe fasting, because of fear from
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the people, or for the sake of their material and worldly benefits, or may observe fasting because of prevailing habits among Muslims. Some observe fasting in order to remain immune from people's persecution as well as not to remain deprived from material gains and advantages obtained through intermingle with the community.
2. A group of people observe fasting in order to remain immune from peoples persecution, as well as not to remain deprived from material advantages obtained through social intermingle; in order to remain immune from Hell's punishments as well as not to be remained deprived from the bounties of Paradise.
3. Another group observe fasting only for the sake of immunity from Hell's punishment, or for utilization of Heavenly bounties, or for the sake of both.
4. Another group observe fasting for the sake of immunity from Hell's punishment as well as to be blessed with Heavenly bounties, but in addition to that, also to seek Allah's pleasure and nearness.
5. In the end there is a group who observe fasting and does not have any other intention and aim except Allah's pleasure and nearness. They observe fast only in order to become closer to Allah (the glorious, the exalted), and to attain the position of His consent.

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